By Scott Nedrow
While sitting at our District Conference in 2011, I turned to my
pastor and whispered that I suddenly felt a need to visit all 44
congregations in our district. His look of question probably matched my
confused feeling, for even as the words left my mouth I had no idea why I
had the need to do this. I wasn’t sure I had the time, or the energy,
to carry it through. Up to this point, I had only visited a few other
congregations outside of Mechanicsburg, which I have been part of since
birth. All I knew for sure was that I was being nudged for some unknown
reason to take this venture.
Over the next few weeks and months, that nudging became a forceful
push. With God’s grace, blessings, and guidance, and the encouragement
and support from my pastor and many others, I made my first visit to
Huntsdale in November 2011 and concluded this journey with my 44th visit
to Farmer’s Grove in June 2013. During this almost two-year journey I
traveled a few thousand miles, ate dozens of Sheetz hotdogs for Sunday
lunch, took more than 2,200 pictures, and spoke with hundreds of
brothers and sisters from around the district.
With each and every visit, blessings arrived in ways that I could not
have begun to imagine when the idea (I believe calling) was first laid
upon me. With no goal or agenda from start to finish, I allowed God to
take control. I always like to be in control so to just let go was
something entirely new for me, but it didn’t take long to realize that
He knew exactly what He was doing. Oh how wonderful it felt to sit back
and allow His blessings and bounty to unfold. In doing so, the journey
for me has been nothing short of riveting and revealing--and I would do
it all over again.
The highlights and blessings are too numerous to list, but I want to
share a few examples of what I encountered and learned along the way.
I was amazed at how widespread the congregations are as far as
distance. For example, Hanover to Sugar Valley is approximately 135
miles apart, or roughly three hours driving time.
I soon realized how rural many of the locations are, some even having my GPS scratch its electronic head.
Although we are in the same district and we all have Brethren ties
and values, I learned quickly that we are also very diverse. Some
worship with traditional services while others have praise services or a
combination of both. Our members dress in plain and contemporary
clothing. Many congregations humbly pray on their knees, while others
just humbly bow their heads. We sing to the accompaniment of drums and
guitars, organs and uprights, and a capella. There are US flags in the
front of some of our sanctuaries, while many others do not have flags.
I found that we are a very welcoming people. We welcome visitors and
each other as members in a variety of different ways, but always with
similar Christian attitudes and intentions. There were some
congregations; however, that seemed to go the extra mile with their
sincerity and their comforting way of making me feel right at home from
the moment I arrived. A few congregations have figured out how to ensure
that no visitor is lost in the Sunday rush, and that visitors are
acknowledged and given the opportunity to learn more about the
congregation if they so desire.
While some congregations do not choose to use a lot of signs, I did
become aware of how important signs can be. I saw whimsical eye-catching
outdoor signs that “Welcome Everyone,” and I saw bright and cheery
indoor signs that directed newcomers easily to their destinations. On
the other side, however, there were outdoor signs in need of repair or
hidden by bushes and hard for motorists to see. I did not set out on
these visits giving signs any thought, but as time went by, God seemed
to make this an important focus.
Many congregations use overheads and electronics in their services,
while others do not. While the debate continues over the value of using
overheads, I personally enjoyed all of our Brethren services. I did have
a closed mind on this issue, but now I understand the value and
rational from both positions. I respect and appreciate the opinions of
all.
With so many of our congregations struggling with attendance, it was
refreshing to see several congregations growing, with many new families
and young families with children becoming part of the church. Also, it
was uplifting to see one congregation have more than 80 percent of
worshipers attend Sunday school!
I feel I have a better appreciation of our variance in understanding
of what it means to be a part of the church. I am hoping this knowledge
will benefit me as I have been called to serve on the District Board and
on the Church Development and Revitalization Commission.
As an open invitation, if you or your congregation would like to know
more about what I have learned on the journey, please contact me at
717-796-6035 or jerseyshoreblues@yahoo.com
. It has been quite a journey for me as a lay person, and I would love
to share my experience with those interested in hearing more.
-- Scott Nedrow is a member of Mechanicsburg (Pa.) Church of the
Brethren. This reflection was published in March in the Southern
Pennsylvania District newsletter.
Source: 5/20/2014 Newsline
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